Tagged with relationships

New Rules: Dating in Los Angeles

New Rules: Dating in Los Angeles


New Rules: Dating in Los Angeles (Sorry Ladies)…I have to call it like I see it sometimes. This is not a blog that all are going to like or co-sign on, and that is okay. I am merely providing an analysis of the opinion of men I have spoken with (whether I agree with them … Continue reading

It’s JUST Facebook… calm down

It’s JUST Facebook… calm down


It’s JUST Facebook… calm down Geeeesh! I hate to have to dedicate an entire blog to facebook, but here we go… In case YOU the person who inspired this blog is reading this, for the record,  I was not ignoring all of your facebook emails! As a matter of fact I didn’t see them because … Continue reading

All the Single Ladies???? Uh-Ohhhhhh!

All the Single Ladies???? Uh-Ohhhhhh!


All the Single Ladies???? Uh-Ohhhhhh! This Blog was inspired by a recent conversation with my brother. He walks over and says hello, or I smile and cross the room or we meet through a mutual friend. Who knows? I am not sure how it happens, but we meet. He tells me something interesting, I reply … Continue reading

For Colored Girls…So what’s your point again?


For Colored Girls…So what’s your point again? This past weekend I, like many African American/ Black (depending on how you self identify) women flocked to the theater to see the Tyler Perry adaption of 1975 play by Ntozake Shange “For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide When the Rainbow Is Enuf.” It was the black … Continue reading

Good Man Vs a Good Person


Is there a Difference between a Good Man and a Good Person? Does being a good person automatically qualify you as a good man/woman? A male friend called me today to get my opinion on some of the issues he has had with women as of late. His search for “quality women” keeps ending in … Continue reading

The Diary of a Single Black Woman


The Diary of a Single Black Woman Last night I was speaking to a friend of mine and making her laugh until it hurt (literally). After several bouts of laughter, she came to the conclusion that I was the strangest person she knows. Now, normally this would have been a very hurtful insult, but since … Continue reading

My New Relationship With Self


My New Relationship With Self As of Monday morning I am in a new relationship (you will notice the status on my page has changed). It is so exciting! My body tingles every time I look at this person. Their smile seems to light up a room. There’s a rush and there’s romance…there’s wine and … Continue reading